Resources for Clients


The Wheel of Consent®

Betty Martin has been and continues to be a major influence on my work.

As well as The School of Consent, Betty also has a YouTube channel. One of her pivotal messages for me is summed up in the video Why the choosing is more important than the doing.

There is a great video with Harry Faddis who originated The 3 Minute Game, the second video on this page https://bettymartin.org/how-to-play-the-3-minute-game/


Recommended reading & viewing


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Erotic Education

I have partnered with EroticMassage.com and OrgasmicYoga.com - the premier resources for Somatic Sex Educators / Certified Sexological Bodyworkers and their students - to bring you the very best online erotic education and instruction. These are particularly useful for those practising mindful self-pleasure practices, as well as for learning erotic strokes and skills for self and/or partnered touch. Online tutorials are offered by some of my favourite teachers including Joseph Kramer, Annie Sprinkle, Chester Mainard, Jaiya and many more. Explore new pleasure possibilities for both solo and partnered erotic practices to educate your hands and heart! Just click on EroticMassage.com and/or OrgasmicYoga.com and click on a class to enrol or to get more information. You can watch the class online or download-to-own in Quicktime, Windows Media or Flash. All individual classes are included with a two-site membership for $29/month.